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Forgiveness, Reconciliation, or Distance?

Answer gently. Your responses are not saved, and this tool will not tell you exactly what to do.

Has the person acknowledged the harm?

yesnonot sure

Have they changed their behavior over time?

yesnonot sure

Do they pressure you to move on quickly?

yesnonot sure

Do you feel free to say no?

yesnonot sure

Would contact put you or someone else at risk?

yesnonot sure

Are you confusing peace with access?

yesnonot sure

Are others pressuring you because they are uncomfortable with the truth?

yesnonot sure

Reflective result

Forgiveness may be the inner work, while next steps still need wisdom.

This is not a directive for your specific situation. It is a reflection prompt to help separate forgiveness, reconciliation, access, and safety.

Scripture references: Romans 12:18, Proverbs 4:23, Luke 17:3-4

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